Lubes & Better Sex Guides

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How to Use Lube: A Beginner’s Guide

It's a well-established fact that individuals who incorporate lubricant into their sexual experiences tend to have more satisfactory and pleasurable encounters. The utilization of this smooth substance not only enhances the ease and comfort of penetration but also amplifies the overall satisfaction derived from external stimulation. Needless to say, there are countless reasons to wholeheartedly embrace the benefits of lube, making it an essential addition to anyone's intimate repertoire.

Contrary to popular misconceptions, lube can be used by everyone, not just people whose bodies are struggling to produce natural lubrication. Even if you feel that your body is doing a great job without any assistance, you might be missing out on a whole load of extra pleasure without knowing it. Incorporating a high-quality lube into your intimate moments can enhance sensations and intensify pleasure, creating a more fulfilling and enjoyable experience. Whether you are exploring self-pleasure or engaging in intimate activities with a partner, the addition of lube can unlock a whole new world of sensations. Its smooth and silky texture can heighten arousal and reduce friction, allowing for effortless glide and a more seamless connection. Furthermore, lube comes in various forms, such as water-based, silicone-based, or oil-based, catering to different preferences and needs. So, regardless of your level of natural lubrication, consider embracing the benefits of lube to enhance your pleasure and take your intimate experiences to new heights.

On top of that, it’s important to remember that the anus does not self-lubricate, so lube is an absolute must for all anal adventures (pro tip: make sure you’re picking up the best lube for anal toys too - more on that below).

If you're new to lubricants, learn how to use and choose the right one here.

  • Lube has multiple different uses in the bedroom, from making penetration easier, to adding some extra flavour to your fun. If you’re a complete lube novice, take a look at our beginner’s guide to lube below. You’re sure to be an expert in no time.

  • Lube has the capacity to improve your sex life in ways you probably haven’t even thought of yet. There’s a whole lube world out there to explore, but these are just some of the pros:

    Lube reduces friction between the things you're rubbing together, which means less chafing and more pleasuring. No matter what sex act you're doing or what toy you're playing with, reduced friction is a blessing your orgasms will thank you for.

    Lubes are a safe way to amp things up in the bedroom, whether that's adding a hint of sweetness to oral sex with flavoured lube, or bringing a little extra tingle to your touches. Plus, lube is designed to be body-friendly so it can join you in places where whipped cream or chocolate sauce can't (and the cleanup will be much easier).

    Lube is ready as soon as you are, so you can heat things up at a moment's notice, especially if you need an extra helping hand in doing so. If you’re using condoms, lube will also help to give sex with a condom a smoother, easier feel (just make sure you’re choosing a lube that’s safe to use with a condom).

  • First thing’s first when it comes to choosing a lube: you’ve got to make sure it’s safe and appropriate for the activities you plan on getting up to. Don’t know your water-based lubes from your silicone lube? Or maybe you’re wondering which lube to use with condoms and which to steer clear of.

Water-based lube

is a versatile lube for all types of sexual activities and toys. It feels great and is safe for solo, vaginal, and anal play. Just make sure to use an anal-specific lube for anal sex and check condom compatibility on the label.

Flavoured Lube

Flavoured lube enhances oral sex and foreplay. It adds variety and pleasure, available in various flavors. Follow the rules based on the lube's material (water-based, oil-based, or silicone), but most are water-based, making them versatile.

Bottle of Liquid Silk lubricant with pump dispenser
Lubido water-based intimate lubricant bottle with pump dispenser, 250ml size, labeled as paraben-free and long-lasting.

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 What are the different types of Lube?

Wondering whether you can use coconut oil as lube? Or maybe you heard an urban myth that you can use olive oil as lube too? The answer is, of course, no. You should always prioritise using specially-formulated sex lubricant for your erotic escapades as it’s designed to be safe for your body. So, if you’ve been tempted to use vaseline as lube, or perhaps you fancied testing out whether you can use moisturiser as lube too, remember to stick to designated sex products, which is much safer.

There are various kinds of lubricants available, each suitable for different activities. Refer to our practical guide to determine the right lubricant for you

Lubes Guide

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Lubes Guide 〰️

Silicone lube 

Silicone lube lasts longer and works in water, making it great for shower sex. It's good for solo, vaginal, and anal sex, but don't use it with realistic or silicone toys. Like water-based lube, it's typically safe with condoms, but read the label to be certain.

Anal lubes,

Flavored lubes, such as anal lube, can be made from different materials like water or silicone. Anal lube is thicker than regular lube and provides a cushioned glide for longer-lasting pleasure during anal sex and play.

Lubricant tube with blue and white label, featuring text "LUBIDO" and "Super Slick Paraben Free Water Based."

Oil-based

Lube usually contains ingredients that soften the skin, like aloe vera, vitamin E, and almond oil. It's great for solo play on the outside of your body. However, it's not safe to use oil-based lube internally (like in the vagina or anus), and you shouldn't use it with condoms. If you're using sex toys, oil-based lube is only safe to use with toys made of glass or metal.

Organic lube

Organic lube is gaining popularity, especially among those who care about the environment and have sensitive bodies. It's crucial to check the label of your organic lube before using it to ensure it's suitable for your intended sexual activity.

Warming lube and tingling lube

 both bring additional stimulation to play and are a quick and easy way to spice up your sex life. There's a huge range of stimulating lubes and gels available out there, all designed to awaken nerve-endings and to enhance your response to touch. Before using a tingly or warming lube on your most sensitive areas, try a little on the inside of your lip to get a sense of just how powerful its stimulation is.

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